The New York Times published an interesting story this weekend on the expectations that parents and children have with respect to inheritances. The article summarized a study published in The Gerontologist last year, in which older adults and their children were polled on whether or not they expected to leave or inherit an inheritance.
It turns out that 86.2% of the parents expected to leave their children something, but only 44.6% of the kids were expecting to receive anything. Interestingly, the adult children who were getting money from their parents during life had a higher expectation about getting more after their parents died than did children who were not receiving such support. Even more interesting, adult children who were providing support for their elderly parents were less likely to expect an inheritance, even though their parents were more likely to leave one. (The article doesn’t say what ‘support’ means here and whether it was financial or more in the realm of help with daily living.)
Psychologists opine that older adults feel morally obligated to provide for their adult children, partly out of concern for their children’s ability to maintain a similar standard of living, given the decline in earning power, and partly out of a sense that family matters most.